In my experience, nothing makes the average Cameroonian/African guy more antsy than a woman who is comfortable enough with her sexuality to talk openly about it. Brag even…
Take this song for example:
Ciara apparently knows her thing (enjoys it too!) and she isn’t afraid to say it.
I can do it big, I can do it long
I can do it whenever or however you want
I can do it up and down, I can do it circles
To him I’m a gymnast, this room is my circus
Not many, I think, would take a girl like this in stride. I can already see the guy’s raised eyebrows were a girl to make statements along these lines.
The questions about how come she can be so bold.
The questions about how many men she’d slept with to be so allegedly good.
E don spoil. Na ashawo
And yes, that little (or big) thrill of interest – anticipation even, as he dares to imagine that she really is as good as she says she is.
So, all the FindPalava’s out there, male and female, whats the deal? What is your preference and why?